I'm a simple yet complicated woman. This is a contradiction of things, yes? lol I'm sorry. But not really, who says you have to be in the black or white area? I am truely unexpected & I know I have broken a lot of hearts. I feel bad, don't think I don't. I know it sucks to get your heart stomped on. This is something that no one likes to experience. Yes? But if we look at it this way, aren't we all looking for that one person that both people feel a connection? So, if you can & want to find it, you have a number of things to consider when choosing a mate. (Yes, I said MATE) Let's not pretend that sex isn't an issue. lol We want, a friend... someone we can trust with anything, and a lover...there's also the fact that you want to find someone who wants you for you... not who they want you to be. I deal with that a lot. Guys thinking "she's an goody girl", "she's a wicked girl" , why can't I be a bit of both? I say it all the time. No one is perfect here on this earth. I know it may seem like some people come close but you have no idea what is really in their heart.

Only God knows that, but anyways. I just feel like if I could tell people anything like advise when looking for that special person in their life... it's who gets you & you get them. There is that crazy way that you feel good around them, & they return those feelings. It can't work if it is one sided. Be careful... when I was born the nurses nicknamed me "heart breaker". I deffinately did not know or was aware of any good looking qualities I possesed growing up. In fact I always felt like the ugly duckling. LOL Low and behold...I am a woman today & guys are drooling, sceaming, hollering @ me, & all... which is flattering but I want a man who doesn't over do it. It feels good to be told you are attractive but your intelligence is also a very important thing you should be sure of too. Who knows what you can come away with... I think I have personally made some huge mistakes with being too nice which is seen as "leading people on" ... shit people, now & days if you are too up front you are called a bitch. If you are not up front enough, you're a TEASE. WTF! HA HA HA! Give a lady a break. What do you think? Talk to me... somebody say something. Boring....